Whatever change you desire to make, do it with STEADFAST commitment.
The STEADFAST Process
The STEADFAST Process: The First Step
The STEADFAST Process: River of Transformation
The STEADFAST Process: River of Transformation
Taking the first step...
What's the first step?
Ask yourself: "Who am I ? What am I up to? What do I want to be up to while living life on Earth?
If you can confront this question without shying away (and even if you do resist at first but go back) if you truly wait for answer, then you've taken the first step.
The STEADFAST Process starts here, with self-reflection. Carve out time to ask yourself inquisitive questions; be willing to wait for the answers to come in their own time. All the while keep bringing your attention back to the questions, so that you are pursuing them with all your heart:
Who am I? Where am I? What am I doing in my life that has brought me to this point? Where do I want to go? Who do I want to be?
TAKE OUT A JOURNAL AND WRITE THOSE ANSWERS DOWN.
And then in regards to STEADFAST:
What do I expect to get out of life consulting? What does an ideal life consulting relationship look like? If I were to share this vision and be transparent with a life consultant what does that provide? What is the impact I want life consulting to have? How do I like to be held accountable when it comes to my commitments? Where could I stretch? How can I support myself to stay steadfast? What do I expect the outcome to be? And how do I deal with expectations currently? What would I like life to look like in the future?
Allow yourself to hear the answers, and whatever they are, be ready to bring them to the table.
FINISH WRITING IN YOUR JOURNAL, AND THEN BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION.
It's a great place to start!
The STEADFAST Process: River of Transformation
The STEADFAST Process: River of Transformation
The STEADFAST Process: River of Transformation
Yes, it's a blend of coaching and consulting, and there's a process...the STEADFAST Process.
To begin with, I see you as a naturally creative, wise, resourceful, and whole. You've got it all inside you. I'm just here to help bring it out so you can see this value... and more.
Most of the time I'm in the coaching role, and as a consultant, there will be moments where I offer guidance, based on training, research and experience.
As your life coach I support you to step into the parts of you that you are longing for, maybe never even acknowledged, to become more fully you. When you understand yourself better, you are able to move yourself where you'd like to go. Whether that be towards a new job, or entering a relationship, you will be clear on who you want to be, what your values are, and what is most important to you as you go forward.
In the sessions together you bring your own topic. This is great. If there is anything that you are blocked by, we work co-actively together, exploring and experiencing alternative ways of being and doing by trying on new perspectives, new options. Once you choose a new perspective, the process of transformation begins.
The STEADFAST Process: "Key" Takeaways
The STEADFAST Process: River of Transformation
The STEADFAST Process: "Key" Takeaways
Commitment is key!
It's something you commit to and something that you allow to take place, all within the realm of the co-active relationship. "Co-Activity" shows up when both people are being equally active in the partnership between client and consultant."
Here's the "key" takeaways that you may already have or will soon acquire, and at some point need:
- investing trust within yourself
- self effort
- partnership
- honoring your personal values
- doing the internal homework
- doing the external homework
- taking a stand into a new way of being and doing to get through old road blocks
- be willing to silence the inner critics
- allowing your innate healthy, wise, strong leader to guide you
- commitment to persevere
- re-targeting when necessary with steadfastness towards your intended goals
- recognizing freedom of choice (which, as a side effect, brings great joy!)
All of these keys are useful and hold the potential to open up doors to a life where you wake up feeling fulfilled and excited to live.
However for life to truly flourish, they must be renewed daily with an investment of time and energy by you.
And to bottom line it, to do the best you can!
WHO SAID CHANGE CAN"T BE FUN!
If you're reading this small print- bonus points! Change aka TRANSFORMATION